Male aupair - perfect for the au pair job!

There is so much written recently about male au pairs.A Male au pair is usually very flexible about the ‘practical aspects’ of the au pair stay, without generalising, they are usually not fussy about what they eat (but they may eat more!) where they sleep (a simple bedroom, very simply furnished is fine!) so is sharing the bathroom (and they’re quicker too!), a more rural location and pets in the house are all right also.

Another big advantage of male au pairs that many of them have an interest in being active and playing sports.This is a great way to keep children, especially slightly older children, active after school and during school holidays. There is nothing worse than long faces and hearing ‘we are bored’ as soon as you come home from work! The male au pairs seem to have lots of energy and even if they may not be a skilled tennis coach, they are usually able to kick a ball in the park!

Most male au pairs have more experience when it comes to driving. If they have a driving license they are most likely to have taken the opportunity to drive and, with a few lessons in the they usually adapt quickly and confidently to the driving.

And who are these male candidates interested in the au pair experience?

Some young males are interested in a career in teaching either academically or coaching in a sport environment but also sometimes those who wish to work directly in a care environment and they sometimes chose to continue their career in a caring role, such as au-pairing. Generally, male candidates chose the au pair option as it gives a genuine opportunity to learn the language and culture of a country from the comfort of a pleasant family home. Male au pair candidates are usually truly interested in the learning and development aspects rather than the money.

I think male au pairs if well vetted can be a really good option as any man who has decided to be an au pair is more likely to be really committed to and interested in children, whereas many girls just fall into it as a way to go abroad. They don’t get emotional and weepy once a month and are generally a joy to have around! Female au pairs please forgive my generalisation !